Lavender: Softening with the Season

 Take a moment to sit with this visual: you find yourself in a lavender patch on a sunny afternoon. The warmth hitting your skin while wafts of lavender flow through the air. Before touching the flowers, you notice the hum of bees moving from blossom to blossom. You gently brush your hand across the flower spikes, pausing to notice how your breathing changes as you inhale the fragrance, observing how quickly the plant communicates through scent alone. Before you know it, you may feel calmer or at peace as this plant begins to soothe your senses. This is the medicine of lavender! 

  One of lavender’s greatest remedies is the assistance it offers with creating energetic harmony. Lavender is the herb of peaceful presence. It gently gathers scattered thoughts and quiets the constant chatter of the mind. Rather than forcing relaxation, lavender invites us to return to ourselves through breath, scent, and simple daily rituals. If you find yourself as a caretaker, lavender acts as a reminder that rest is not a luxury, but a tool in healing our minds and bodies. Similar to how food acts as nourishment for our bodies, lavender shows us how beauty, joy, and stillness can nourish our nervous systems. 

There is an old French Folktale set in Province where a nameless woman known as the Lady of the Lavender Fields lingers as a presence in the dusk-scented rows. Once a gifted healer in love with a farmer named Armand, she waited for him after he was taken to war, and died clutching a dried lavender bloom he gifted to her. After her burial among the flowers, sightings and hauntings began: whispers at twilight, soldier’s dreams of a lavender scented kiss, and a fragrance that brought peace. A skeptical apothecary, Jules, entered the fields to harvest and bottle the scents. He lost his voice in exchange for peace and spent his life tending the fields in silent devotion. A greedy baron who tried to burn the fields was cursed as lavender overran his estate and drove him mad. The villagers honor her still, believing her story teaches that love never dies. It simply transforms, haunting and healing across memory and time. 

Lavender can be used in a number of ways from skincare to culinary. When harvesting lavender, you want to catch it right as the first flowers begin opening. This is when essential oil content is at its highest. If you’re looking to harvest your own lavender this summer, Crescent Valley Lavender Farm is one of my favorites. A breath-taking 9-acre, family-owned sanctuary in Gig Harbor. Run with passion by Glen & Diana, Crescent Valley is an experience. The farm offers u-pick bundles, hydrosols, essential oils, handmade pottery, and other artisanal creations. The space invites guests to slow down, wander, and take in all the beauty. The property neighbors a thoughtfully cared for forested space that is home to lots of native trees and plants. Glen and Diana have created informative trail postings, helping farm visitors identify the different species. Every season Crescent Valley hosts the apprenticeship. Offering the students a day filled with information and beautiful medicine.

With your lavender harvest you can create your own daily ritual with lavender honey. Infusing honey with fresh lavender adds a delicate floral flavor and therapeutic properties to your sweetener.

Here's how you can make lavender-infused honey:

  1. Collect fresh lavender, making sure they are clean and free from any chemicals or pesticides.

  2. Remove stem from lavender and place flower into a clean glass jar until it is 3/4 full.

  3. Pour enough honey into the jar to completely cover the lavender and fill the jar. Use raw, organic honey for the best results.

  4. Gently stir the honey and lavender to ensure they are well combined.

  5. Seal the jar tightly and place it in a bowl just in case the jar leaks a little from the top. Let it sit for about 2-3 weeks in a cool, dark cabinet.

  6. After the infusion period, the honey will be a little runny. Strain the honey through a fine mesh strainer or nut milk bag to remove the lavender. Squeeze to remove any remaining honey.

  7. Transfer the lavender-infused honey to a clean jar or container.

  8. Label the jar with the date and contents, and store it in a cool, dark place for future use.

You can use the lavender-infused honey as an herbal remedy, sweetener in teas, baked goods, dressings, or simply enjoy it by the spoonful. The honey will carry the subtle aroma and taste of roses, providing a delicious and unique flavor to your dishes.

You can anoint your space with the beauty of Lavender with your very own lavender wand or wreath! Fresh lavender stems woven into fragrant wands preserve their scent for years and make beautiful gifts, drawer sachets, or natural air fresheners. Here’s a video to learn how to create one on your own Make Your Own Lavender Wand // weaving with fresh lavender.


Lavender reminds us that every season has its own way of softening us, as though the earth exhales through its violet bloom. Its fragrance drifts like a quiet hymn, loosening the knots we’ve carried and guiding us back toward gentler rhythms. We are reminded of lavender’s teaching each summer, as it returns again and again, inviting us to breathe, to slow, and to be held by the simple rituals that steady the our spirit. 

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